Lover nervous about dating
We get a lot of questions that go something like: “I’m really confused, my boyfriend says he’s crazy about me and I’m the most amazing/wonderful/smart/funny/etc girl he’s ever dated but he always blows me off and he can’t hang out and doesn’t have time to talk on the phone or text back or take me out on dates and I really only see him late at night when he feels like it.” OK, maybe not exactly like that, but close enough.Men intuitively know that words are important to women.The fact that a man doesn’t text you as much or as often as you’d like doesn’t mean he doesn’t care about you – he’s usually just focusing on something else and most men have a difficult time seeing beyond a given task at hand.This is hard for most women to understand because women can switch from one task to the next and back again with much more ease.Fortunately, I’m not the selfish type and am more than happy to share everything I’ve learned.Read on for universal male truths that can save your relationship and your sanity.Show him how happy it made you when he did such and such.
MORE- Ask a Guy: When a Guy Doesn’t Text Back Guys don’t think about relationships as often as women do. It doesn’t mean they don’t care; it’s just not a central point of focus.For instance, let’s say a woman is in a truly amazing relationship and the only problem is her man has yet to say those three not-so-little words.She may start to obsess over why he hasn’t said it and what it means.I can relate to all the questions we receive on a personal level because once upon a time, I too was banging my head against the table in an effort to understand .It wasn’t an easy process, but I eventually reached a point where it all made sense and all my questions and confusions suddenly evaporated.
Sadly, a lot of relationships collapse before they even get off the ground because the girl can’t handle the sudden decrease in daily texts and instead of dealing with it, she lashes out at the guy and demands explanations for every text he doesn’t reply to.